It is a quiet afternoon at the rabbit patch-an unfamiliar kind of quiet. There was no “Sunday Dinner” as daddy did not feel well this morning. Kyle and Christian are with friends. Cash and Christopher Robin are sleeping. The last of the cotton is being picked in a field, just “across the way”. The drone of the combine acts like a lullaby as it drifts through the open window, by the “morning table”.
It seems, I am “left to my own devices”. I am liberated from housekeeping duties, as I cleaned yesterday, well into the night. I did manage to find a task or two in the afternoon-and since there are no”left-overs” from dinner, I will cook a good supper. What a good time it would be to practice the cello, except I am only borrowing one now and I do not yet take it home.
I listened to several enlightening lessons- all focused on proper living. The resounding message was to love yourself and others- and to be grateful. The business of loving yourself really , is to remind ourselves that we truly are “beautifully and wonderfully made”. The business of loving others, to me, could be summed up by doing our best to “understand the heart ” of others. Certainly, my account is a “watered down” version of this ancient lesson-and pales in comparison to the beautiful presentation by the ninety-three year old sage, I was listening to, but I was inspired all over again, to deepen my love for others.
I called a dear friend about mid afternoon. Her name is Julie and I have known her since I was a young girl, but we happened to become neighbors, a score of years ago, and that is when we developed a friendship, that bound us mightily. I have laughed more with Julie than I have with most people. We do not have to “bar subjects”, but are free to discuss anything, as we please. . . somehow we always end up talking about God. Julie is well studied and quite “sharp”, so she provides interesting conversations, you don’t soon forget.
Julie has a fair amount of ailments, which all stemmed from high blood pressure. A stroke blinded her for a little while, but thankfully she recovered and regained her vision. Her kidneys, did not recover. She has been on dialysis a few years. This summer, Julie had to have both of her legs amputated. Julie is my age–fifty-eight.
Do not think Julie is in “dire straights” . . .or feels pitiful for herself. You would be mistaken. . .for Julie has the heart of a warrior, with her battles-and an iron clad faith. Julie is thankful that the surgery relieved her of pain. She is grateful to be liberated from the pain medicine she had to rely on, at one time. Julie, unaware, inspired me, a second time this day. She had convinced me that living a life of gratitude was not only joyful-but peaceful and powerful too.
By the time we hung up, I needed to turn a lamp on. I sat for a short while, thinking that the day had passed with such generosity- as if it were my birthday. I sat in the twilight, and I hoped and prayed to do better. I wished better-for the whole world . . . until, the first stars came out . . . and supper was ready . . .and the boys were on the way home.
Dear Diary, I want to love more . . and there is so much to love. I must remember to be grateful too, for there is so much to be grateful for . . friends are surely one of them.
Lovely inspirational journal once again Michele. My heart goes to you and how inspiring Julie is! I’d love to grow old like that—warrior, beaten but standing up through the test of time. Your birthday or not, you deserve so much love too, for your heart is precious.
Love from Germany, Christina
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You are so kind. Julie is a special person and I admire her so much. Please know your words made my day-thank you love Michele
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I am participating in Gratitude Week 2017 which is hosted by the very lovely Michelle at Michellegd.com. It is for one week and open to anyone.
Today I am reflecting on friendship. I have been friends with Michele for about a year now. I don’t think I could put my own gratitude for the friendships I have developed through my life into words better than her words in the following post.
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oh my! Thank you dear! I can not wait to share this with Julie! How kind you are-you are a special friend to me-from the day we met. love Michele
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Wouldn’t it be nice if everyone could just be grateful for what we have instead of fighting for more.Most of the time “less is more””.
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You are so right- I have been shown that.
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Michelle, I am glad to have found you via Bernadette’s wonderful blog.
Your story about you and your so very close friend Julie is so endearing and I feel my heart sing in tune
with so much care and love. And bravery.
You are so right, each day will give us reminders about how much we have to be grateful for.
Bless
miriam
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oh thank you for saying hello-Bernadette is so very kind and has always encouraged me. You visit when you can. and I agree that gratitude is wonderful-and makes the difference.
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Such a heartfelt post Michele. I should think you and Julie are a great deal alike on the warrior front.
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She has had a positive impact on me. We have been through a lot of things together-life altering things-not always agreed, but never argued. Love is bigger than needing to agree on every thing. I have learned a lot at her hands. thank you so much love Michele
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Everyone needs a Julie in their life.
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yes-the whole world could use a Julie. Thank you-Michele
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Such an inspiring, uplifting post. Thanks to Bernadette for sharing it 😊👏🏻💜
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Bernadette is another very special friend to all of us. Thank you so much. Michele
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What a beautiful story. And beautiful Julie…how inspiring.
Yes to more love, to the accompanying gratitude. Yes and yes and yes.
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thank you-the most beautiful part is that it is all true, Julie has taught me so much and I am so blessed-yes to love-I like that. Thank you again! Michele
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The more we love, the more love we get and if we don’t it doesn’t matter either. 58 is a perfect age!
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I agree dear Cathy-and I love my age! thank you, love Michele
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Age gives confidence and perspective. Thank you for sharing it!
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Beautiful post! Thanks. 🙂
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thank you-kind words are such a gift. Please know I appreciate your comment. Michele
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I too came to this beautiful post via Bernadette and I am so glad that I did. Much love and hugs to you and your wonderful friend.
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What a lovely greeting! I am so glad to meet you and glad you liked the post. It means so much when people leave kind- words like sweet tokens. Thank you again, love Michele
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Julie sounds like a warrior princess of the Most High King. What an inspiration this post is Michele. It inspires me to love more freely and give more willingly. Thank you my friend!
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You nailed Julie-I am so blessed. Our Father is so kind. Faye, all I want to do is love love everybody! I know you do too. Thank you so much. love Michele
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Your friendship with Julie is inspiring.
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thank you-I intend to share more about her-I just wanted her to have some time to process all that has happened-of course, she is quicker than the average bear at that! ha ha! thank you sweet Anne-love Michele
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This was so enjoyable, except for the sadness of Julie’s illness. I am chronically ill and strive for her great attitude but not nearly as well as she. Thanks to your blog I am reminded to try harder.
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micki I am sorry to hear this and wish you well. If Julies’ story helped you in any way, then I m thankful. Godspeed friend-and thank you so much. love Michele
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Julie inspires us all now!! 💜✨🌷✨💜
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I am so glad-Julie is bringing light just when we need it! thank you Virginia
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Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and please do not stop writing
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oh, thank you-you have a special place in my heart-my first follower! I have never forgotten how I felt, when I saw that. You gave me hope-sincerely, Michele
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Love truly is the way to live, Michele. And the more we Love the more about Love we understand. And to have a friend like Julie is rare and is precious indeed. I am SO happy for you that you have a friendship like this to be free in thought and word and to flow. How beautiful. LOVED this story, dear friend. I thank you for it! 🤗
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thank you AmyRose-I know you are on a journey to understand how to love-it shows up in your posts. I am blessed to have Julie and so glad you liked her story. thank you ~ love Michele
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It seems that very often we are encouraged and inspired by those who have much to bear, but do so with so much grace…as in the case of your friend Julie…. Diane
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you are so right. Warriors take many different forms. I have always thought so. Thank you Diane,~ love Michele
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I am glad you have a friend like Julie in your life. She’s inspiring! Thanks for sharing this affirming story.
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Julie is unusually extraordinary and I am so blessed! Thank you Ann
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Yes, friends are surely one of them, and you are the dearest possible friend you could be to so many. My grandmother used to say, “To have a friend you must be a friend.” You exemplify those words. I am so glad you and Julie have a true and strong friendship. Surely you are two stalwart souls who have found one another.
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thank you-Julie and I have quite a bond. Surely heaven sent. I am so blessed. love Michele
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“thinking that the day had passed with such generosity- as if it were my birthday.” I love how you express yourself…so beautifully said and conveys exactly what you are feeling. You should write a book filled with short stories…I would treasure it. Each day have a short story to read to start my day with such lovely sentiments and lessons of life to remember!! Yes there is always something to be grateful for…love Deb xo
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well this comment makes my day! please pray about this for me-as it is a dream of mine. thank you so very much for this gift-love Michele
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You should print out your posts and put them together in a booklet and send them to a publisher…truly each one is a treasure! You’re most very welcome. love Deb
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Your description of Julie puts me in my mind of my best human friend Jeff.
He and I have been best friends since Junior High School. He is my son’s Godfather, and I was the best man at his wedding (he was in the Navy at the time and couldn’t stand up for me).
There are “no holds barred” when it comes to conversation, and like you, we have not always agreed, but we have always peacefully accepted the other. We have never had an argument in…oh, I guess about 42 years or so. I find this to be somewhat miraculous.
Julie’s attitude-courage if it’s the right word, is indeed inspiring.
Each day begins anew.
Each day is another opportunity to be the person you want to be, to live and love as you see fit.
Every day is, in its way, your birthday.
Happy Birthday, and blessings to Julie.
Seek peace,
Paz
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You and Jeff sound very much like Julie and i. To have a friend for decades is an amazing feat altogether-it is formed much like a pearl. I am glad you have that too. I love the message for Julie and she will too. thank you my friend-Michele
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